A candid conversation with a web model, or how webcam helps to understand men
Would you ever like to know what's in a webcam girl's head? If so, then this article is for you! Successful web model Sabien DeMonia will share all the nuances of her piquant profession. If you are already working in the adult industry or are just planning to start your career in it, then this information will definitely be useful to you. We asked the model how she feels about her fans, what experience and valuable knowledge she gained while working in webcam, and what impact it had on her life.
- What knowledge did you manage to gain about the psychology of men while working as a web model?
To my great regret, I realized that many men are ignorant and rude by nature. Some of them may persistently insist for a long time that you fulfill their request, even if you refuse. It may cross your personal boundaries, but they don't care. It also pisses me off when men think that girls just can't find a "normal job", so they have to show off their charms in front of the camera for donations. Sometimes toxic guys come to a webcam session just to pour out on the models the negativity that they have accumulated. This is also very annoying.
- Do your loved ones know what you do for a living? How do they feel about this?
It wasn't until I was working on a webcam that I realized how limited the people I meet in real life can be. I am glad that this happened, because many of my friends appeared to me in their true form. Many of my people stopped communicating with me as soon as they found out what I do for a living, because it's too frivolous for them. Sometimes men get hurt because I have my own business and I won't become financially dependent on my partner. But overall, I'm very pleased that a lot of guys are quite okay with webcam. They're even interested in learning more about how things really work in the adult industry, and they ask me a lot of different questions about it. Relations with some of my friends have even strengthened on this basis.
- Is it true that webcam allows models to get to know better what men want?
In general, it should be noted that this profession is not for the faint of heart. Even if it is difficult to surprise or embarrass you in everyday life, do not think that it will be the same in a webcam. Sometimes fans ask you to do something that just sends a chill down your spine. And often thoughts creep in at all about whether it is legal in principle.… Of course, not all followers are like that. Of course, you can also meet insanely kind, adequate and even sensitive men on the webcam. In general, in this field you get a unique experience in dealing with people of different temperaments, characters, beliefs.
Sometimes users just want to give you money without any requests. They just think you're cute, so they don't spare any money. And someone, on the contrary, wants to strip you to the maximum and not pay anything for it. The fight against freeloaders requires a lot of time and energy from the model. There are users who are willing to pay, but you will have to work hard for these tokens to work them out. Many people come to your session simply because of the need for basic human communication. But sometimes such people start to think that you are not a web model, but a pleasant-looking psychotherapist. Most men are married, they already have families, but they come here to take a break from the boring routine.
The scariest thing is to run into stalkers who are obsessed with webcam models. They are often inadequate and behave frighteningly. Therefore, it is necessary to take care of your own privacy and anonymity when working in the adult industry. My profession has helped me to learn a lot more about how men work, about their fetishes and sexual needs. And it gives me invaluable experience, which I apply in real life.
- Tell me what men's secrets did you learn about thanks to the webcam?
It is very rare that a man is completely satisfied with his daily routine. Most often, he has his own intimate fantasies, unusual fetishes, dreams that are very difficult to realize in real life. Partners are not always ready for bold experiments. And in the webcam, for donations, you can have a heart-to-heart conversation, and share fantasies, being sure that you will not receive condemnation in return, and just watch a candid show performed by a sexy web model. Close contact during the session helps many men to relax, stop being afraid of girls and establish communication with the female sex.
- What other interesting conclusions about men have you come to?
I realized that most men have a visual type of perception. They love with their eyes. This is the whole secret of the popularity and relevance of the webcam. All users who come to the webcam rooms rely on the absolute tolerance of the models. Because in real life, many men face misunderstanding, ridicule and negativity from girls in response to their revelations about sexual fantasies or desires. Men perceive webcam as a place where you can be yourself, and you will be accepted and understood. Therefore, web models must provide an adequate response to fan requests, even if at first it may seem very funny or not quite adequate.
