Phone sex: Basic tips

In the age of information technology, phone sex remains one of the best ways to bring new colors to intimate life. He will come to the rescue if you and your partner are temporarily in different cities or are just not ready for more serious experiments in bed yet. The main secret of success in this business is the ability to relax, behave confidently and be ready for some transformations. Perhaps at the very beginning you will feel awkward or sometimes even stupid, but this is quite normal. In this article, we will give you simple recommendations, following which you can learn how to make phone sex with a partner unforgettable.

Let's start with the preparation.

First, set a date for a racy phone date. Of course, such an experiment may well be random, but you should still start with a pre-planned call.

Try to choose a time when you will be alone, in a comfortable environment and conditions in which you can completely relax. This applies to both partners, because it is difficult to have phone sex when one partner is already aroused and relaxed in his own bed, while the other is caught in the rain somewhere outside.

If you and your partner don't feel confident enough or are completely new to this kind of intimacy, then read this article together. And also don't forget that it's always better to discuss your expectations of phone sex in advance. This will increase the chances that both of you will be satisfied with the new experience.

Relax and tune in to the right wave.

Phone sex requires both partners to relax completely. If only because it's hard to enjoy yourself if you feel awkward, stupid, or stressed. Prepare for the call: do everything you can to feel confident and sexy.

To relax, you can lie down for a while and browse through your favorite websites, drink some wine, sing your favorite song while dancing in front of the mirror. In other words, do everything that usually helps you get rid of tension.

Get in the right mood. To do this, you can create a sexual atmosphere around yourself, as well as resort to all those rituals that you use before sex. Perhaps dim lights, lit candles and incense, relaxing music, a hot shower or bath, and your favorite lace underwear will also help. You may also need sex devices. They are indispensable if you suddenly need an additional source of excitement. The main thing is not to overdo it and not finish before the cherished call begins.

Let's get to the fun part.

Start the call. As soon as the other person picks up the phone, set the pace at which you both feel comfortable. Remember that there is no one sure way to have sex on the phone. If you don't know where to start, then you can write a little before calling. The main thing is not to forget about the main purpose of the new experience.

If languid breathing, deep timbre of voice or a special intonation will help you tune in to the right wave, use it! Just do not overstep yourself and do it insincerely, otherwise there is a risk of spoiling everything. Do as you feel, and it will be as sexy as possible for your partner.

Try to start with a neutral topic that can be slowly translated into a sexual conversation.

The most difficult thing about the first experience of phone sex is to start a conversation. You can start with a topic that is easy and comfortable for both of you to talk about. For example, you can talk about how you and your partner miss each other, how you want to see each other as soon as possible, and what you would do if you were next to each other right now. Then describe what you are wearing at the moment, how you feel in these clothes, or ask your partner to describe some of it.

Start discussing a hot topic.

If you have already successfully started a conversation with your partner, and both of you are comfortable, then try to adjust the conversation a little and add more juicy details to it. We have several proven ideas in this regard. For example, describe or ask your partner to describe what you are doing right now: caressing yourself or slowly undressing. Be as cheeky as your imagination allows you to be. You can also ask your partner for advice. For example, you might ask, "Do you think it's time for me to switch to underwear?"

Tell your partner what you would like him to do to you right now. Don't worry if you can't touch yourself at this moment, because even without that, you can let the other person know how excited you are and enjoy the process.

Share in the conversation what you usually imagine, reveal your fantasies. For example, tell us what else in sex you would like to try with a partner.

Try to start slowly. You might want to mention how you stroke the other person's hair or compliment your partner that her breasts look amazing in this T-shirt. After that, you can proceed to voicing the actions that you would like to do with your partner right now. For example, "and then I slowly but passionately kiss your neck." Or remember something from your experience: "remember how you did this to me in the shower." Remember that how aroused you get and how far you go in a conversation depends only on yourself.

Describe as vividly as possible what you feel when you hear your partner's words. Moaning won't be superfluous if it helps to show how you feel right now. But, neglecting your own comfort, you certainly shouldn't do this.

Let your partner feel that you like what he does and/or says. Also, don't be afraid to talk about what makes you uncomfortable, so you'll both tune in faster.

Use masturbation or orgasm as a pleasant addition to phone sex. However, remember that this is not necessary at all. If you don't want to satisfy yourself alone, then ask if the other person would like to join you. Don't get upset if your partner doesn't want to masturbate. By the way, you also don't have to join if your partner starts doing it.

Don't be sad if none of you manage to reach the climax. After all, an orgasm is just the icing on the cake, not your main goal. If you get to the finish line first, don't end the conversation, continue it so that your partner has a chance to do the same.

Let's move on to the end of the conversation.

Remember that you both have the right to end the conversation whenever you want. There is no need to wait for an orgasm to occur. However, if that's what you want, then everything is in your hands.

It should be noted that there are no specific rules that would regulate the end of phone sex after reaching orgasm. You can continue the racy conversation for as long as you want. Some people like to finish it immediately after the climax, while others like to stay on the line longer. The main thing is, before you hang up, don't forget to tell your partner how much fun this experience has brought you.