Getting to know the foot fetish: where to start and how to make it unforgettable?
Human legs are one of the most sensitive and erogenous zones, because the skin there is very thin, and there are quite a lot of nerve endings. Many people are actually turned on by just the sight of their toes or the foot as a whole. Some people are aroused by ankles covered with a delicate mesh of stockings, others go crazy from touching their heels and feet with their heads. Such people usually have one thing in common - a fascination with foot fetish. The main thing here is careful preparation and preliminary agreements between the partners. This will help to avoid embarrassment, tickling and get only feelings of warmth, intimacy and deep satisfaction.
Intimate scenes with legs can't be prevented by a ritual. It can be a warm bath, cream or lotion, dim lights, short but appropriate phrases that will make the atmosphere even more sensual and sexy. Relax, move and speak slowly, avoid anxiety, then chances are good that legs will become your common favorite way to please each other.
Take time for preparation and hygiene
Cleanliness in this business is not a sign of pedantry, but a guarantee of comfort and pleasant sensations. To do this, use a small amount of delicate gel and warm water, a scrub and a soft towel. After that, the heel edge should be lightly treated, the feet and the spaces between the toes should be dried to avoid foreign odors. Nails should be filed so that there are no sharp edges, and jewelry should be removed from the fingers. To give a pleasant fragrance to the sensitive area, you can use a light cream or oil without harsh fragrances.
If desired, you can add nice and beautiful details. These can be thin socks made of cotton or mesh, which will help to avoid tickling and allow you to move slower and tighter, which is especially important at the beginning. If the feet or fingers are too sensitive or there are calluses or cracks on this part of the feet, work with the flat of the palm and the back of the hand. These will help to remove the "point pressure" and make the process more pleasant and comfortable. Remember that there is no place for pain here, instead there should be warmth, pleasure and a certain rhythm.
What to use for lubrication, and how to avoid excessive sliding?
To practice foot fetish, choose medium-density creams. These products are ideal for massage, providing moderate gliding and pause time. If you are more inclined to choose an oil, then take it light and without stickiness, especially if you plan to touch your feet with your lips. Don't forget that a lot of oil and condoms are incompatible, so it's important to keep them at a distance.
You can adjust the sensitivity using a cloth. It is more difficult to cause tickling through stockings or socks, and it is easier and faster for the nervous system to get used to a new practice. If the skin is dry and literally creaks under your fingers, then knitwear will help. They greatly facilitate the movement of the hands on the legs, making them more comfortable. If there is too much sliding, then pause, and apply the cream in small quantities and only on your palms, not on your feet. It makes it much easier to control the rhythm.
Important: discuss all the details in advance and get the partner's consent.
Feelings of shame and awkwardness will not appear if you agree on everything with your partner in advance. Discuss what exactly will be included in the process: massage, kissing, touching the face or breasts, whether there will be stockings or socks. Pay special attention to talking about what you are definitely not ready for, as well as the topic of smell and ticklish areas of the feet. In the process, you can prompt your partner and orient him with the help of any short words so that it does not affect your general mood and your arousal. So, for example, it can be the words: closer, softer, harder, pause, stop, and others that you yourself determine beforehand. Talk to your partner on the exhale, slightly lowering the timbre, try to do without evaluative phrases. When the body hears about places and actions, it's easier to trust it.
What positions and supports should I use?
- on the couch facing each other. One partner should sit down half-sitting, and the other at his feet. The feet are on the hips, knees or chest, and it is better to put a pillow under the lower back for comfort. The palms move from the heel to the toes, you can "draw" figures of eight around the ankles with your fingers, and pause at the arch of the foot. This is a great option for beginners, where it is comfortable to talk to each other while massaging their feet using oil or cream.;
- The "spoon" position on the side. This position is especially convenient for those who want to be closer to their partner, but not face to face. The foot of the upper leg is at the hip of the partner, and the lower leg is on the blanket. Make slow finger locks with little pressure. Use warm breath to the ankle;
"At the edge of the bed." This will turn out to be something like a "pedicure booth." One partner sits on the floor or on an ottoman, the other on the bed. The height is a perfect match, the back is not in tension, there are no difficulties with maintaining the rhythm. If you want to improve the process, add a mirror against the wall, approximately at hip level.;
- Using fabric. Leave a sock or stocking on one leg and slowly remove it from the other, this will add a contrast of textures to the process. You can also alternate between massaging your foot through the fabric for a minute, then taking a short break and continuing without the fabric. This will help to avoid overloading and tickling.
How to act correctly: about hand and lip routes and rhythm
The heel and the edge.
Work with the palm of your hand from the center of the heel to the outer edge, and then to the achilles. This movement is tight, confident and painless for the partner. Tension can be relieved by using short presses at the edge, and then smoothed out.
Arch of foot and instep.
Perform short arcs and "figure eights" under the pads of your fingers, and then move along the tendons to the ankle. If your partner is tickled, you can use a cloth or increase the palm area. The tongue can move along the edge, but not to the center.
Fingers and the space between them.
You should move to this area of the foot only after warming up. Observe the following rhythm: one "lock", one exhale, then a pause, then a change of angle. Avoid nail "snapping" and sudden stretching. If you notice an increased sensitivity in your partner, kisses are allowed on the back of the foot, but not on the pads.
Ankles and ankles.
Make circular movements with your thumb and forefinger, followed by warm breathing. This place, thanks to the nerve endings, is the best bridge to the rest of the body.
What words should I say in the process?
In this case, words about the action and the effect of it are ideal, and it is better to exclude evaluative words. Use the following working phrases:
- keep it here;
- I'm melting;
"leave it that way;
- continue along the rise and pause at your fingers;
- slower, wider palm, no tickling.
Don't joke about the smells and don't compare your partner's feet to someone else's. If this is very important to you, take care of it in advance and offer your partner help. For example, make a foot bath and choose a cream or oil. So, this will be a show of care, not excessive criticism, and will not bring down the mood.
When is it appropriate to use foot fetish attributes (socks, shoes, etc.)?
Socks and stockings are perfect for getting rid of tickling and playing with taking off and putting on. Some people are madly turned on by the sight of a cuff lowered by a couple of centimeters or a slightly open heel. Avoid accessories made of synthetic fabrics with a pungent odor, ideally they should be clean and odorless socks or stockings.
Shoes and other footwear. They are more suitable for a visual effect for the first few minutes than for long-term contact with a partner. Remember that heels should only stand on a stable surface and away from the partner's body. With the help of shoes, it is better to play taking off and putting on, so the risk will be minimal, and aesthetics will be preserved.
Ankle accessories. It can be a thin chain or a soft ribbon, which will also serve as a good "point of focus" for a partner. However, do not use anything that has sharp edges or is too tight, as there is a risk of injuring nerve endings or causing bleeding.
Follow safety measures to prevent the most common foot fetish mistakes.
- Avoid pressure on the nail plate, do not extend your toes until they snap, do not use oil in close proximity to latex. Keep an eye on the temperature of the hands with which you touch your partner. Feet are a particularly sensitive area, and cold hands are not needed here. Warm your hands in advance. When massaging the legs, any crack or inflammation must be avoided.
- Usually, most people make the same mistakes with foot fetish:
- movements are too fast (try manipulating the "one-two-pause" count);
- it tickles your partner (use a cloth, move more slowly, palm wider);
- too dry skin (add a drop of cream from the palm of your hand, not directly on the skin);
- it's awkward to talk (use short navigation words: softer, harder, leave it here, pause);
- your back is tired (change the height, use an ottoman, a cushion, or sit on the edge of the bed).
Try a small 15-minute ritual.
So, we spend two minutes on warm water, drying our feet and massaging with cream. After that, we warm up the heel and the edge with the palm of our hand for three minutes. Next, we spend three minutes on the arch and lifting, massaging the "short arcs" movement. Three minutes of ankle massage using a cloth and warm breathing. We massage the fingers and the back of the foot for four minutes, use kisses and make pauses.
End the session by switching to hugs or a new area of your partner's body. Remember that foot fetish is almost always not a separate practice, but part of a common route. Treat your partner carefully, keep the rhythm, talk about your desires, then your legs will become a guide to the world of pleasure for both of you.
